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| 26th June 2020 12:21 PM | ||
| Samirjmt |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Because parents generally bind their children to fulfil their own childhood incomplete dreams and think let their child accomplished those and thus they even force them to choose those streams and faculty which they wanted to.A simple solution to overcome this is to sit and have a nice talk with the parents and explain about your particular interest and what you want to do in your career. |
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| 5th September 2015 10:34 AM | ||
| Unregistered |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? if the parents are doing this for our well-being then why do students who are forced to take the streams their parents force them to do suicide?If parents are doing this for us then why do they not understand that the child may not be mature but this decision may make him or her mature.It will teach the children responsibility.but no the parents just want competition like for example if the neighbor's son is doing engineering then their son must do it to but what if their son wants to do arts or something? |
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| 27th January 2012 06:34 PM | ||
| saasmari |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Dear pal, it is all because of their affection and fear. They are worried about the child future and in no case what them to fail. But at the same time they provide them their opinion. They do not decide it with in few days they spend lot of time in deciding it. Few say that the parents insist their ambition on to their child but it is not like that. They want their children to be success and well known person to the society. They are the only wealth of them . So do not neglect your parents here to their opinion. If it is wrong try to convince them. You need to convince them about the course you are wishing to do and promise them that you will do your best in it. As few blame their parents if they fail stating that they should have not allowed them to choose the field. |
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| 27th January 2012 06:09 PM | ||
| rkexam |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Quote:
I want to let you clarify one thing that your parent's always think about your future the don't prefer your Interest because they want you to be a successful person more that they are because they don't want you to make any mistake that lead you to failure so if you are going to choose any subject that have no scope then definitely they not allow you but if you think you are right then go talk to them and tell them that what you are choosing is right they willl Definitely Understand you. With Regards RK |
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| 27th January 2012 05:43 PM | ||
| anlakshmi |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Parents know more as they have seen the world. They know more as they have seen life more whereas children know more about the latest trend. Parents should allow their child to follow his or her dream but if they know that the career which they are choosing won't be a bright future then they should not allow it. They can choose a substitute for it. For example, painting and all other related won't give you a very high payoffs. If you want to waste your life as a drawing or craft teacher then the matter is different. In the future when you see your friend earning lots and you in penny, you will feel bad. So parents should not leave the entire decision on children. Parents should give guidance to their children when they need. So children should allow to choose their career with their parents proper guidance. |
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| 27th January 2012 04:54 PM | ||
| Snehamay ganguly |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? dear friend, Children's are not allowed to choose their career because , they are not enough matured to think about their future career prospect.. Parents are much more matured than their children's , because they have already passed the age , They gather much more experience from their entire life.. So, they have the ability to judge someone, they know this world better than their children.. That's why they always take the decision about their children's career. Sometimes they have some dreams , which they can not able to complete , for that reason they want to complete that dream through their children's success.. But if you want to go for some other course then try to convince your parents , and try to show them the future career prospect of that course. I am sure they will listen to you. All the best. |
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| 26th January 2012 09:39 PM | ||
| qwertyuiop2758 |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Dear  In many families, parents force their children to choose their career.... This is because they want their children to become what they could not become... But in my view, children should be allowed to choose their own career... This is totally based on the interest of the children.... They must not be forced by their parents.. Thankyou Aishwarya Mehrora |
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| 26th January 2012 08:23 PM | ||
| Oracle 9 |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? parent force because you are unsure. if you are sure that what you want to do than please explain them why you want to do this/that and if still they force than it is some time really become difficult to cope with that. but your firm belief in that course,your interest and hard work in that particular course will win them at last. |
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| 26th January 2012 06:27 PM | ||
| adlsm |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Friend , its nothing like that you can do whatever you want in life, but you should also try and give your best to fulfil the minimum desires of your parents.after all they are more matured than you and they can only tel which is the best for you . if you have passion for somethin and wanna pursue your carrier on your passion , then sit and discuss with your parents and am sure they wil agree to it give a try . love your parents and respect them becaus watever you are today you are becaus of them . |
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| 26th January 2012 04:19 PM | ||
| Unregistered |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? iam an engineering final year student. i was made to opt for engineering by my parents, but now i feel so lost and depressed in the end that i cannot even think about finishing it or going on, ii feel suicidal.i dnt want to continue,i feel distressed.i know my course will end in may, but i cannot even think of proceeding anymore,i have lost all my willpower and patience. please help. |
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| 6th January 2012 11:04 PM | ||
| Unregistered |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? sm tym,due to lack of conversation between parents n children.........both parents n children r not able 2 express themselves.......this cause confusion between their thoughts.......n a child thinks that parents r forcing 2 choose a particular stream in wich they r not interested.........n parents think that the child is disobeying him.......... SO,being a student..n as per my expeience i wud request both parents n children 2 be frank towards each other!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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| 5th January 2012 06:41 PM | ||
| Unregistered |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? the student must have freedom to choose their own profession |
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| 27th July 2011 09:08 PM | ||
| Unregistered |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? pparents shld allow sweet kiddies like me......... not bad like u................... |
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| 21st July 2011 09:35 PM | ||
| Unregistered |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? give some points saying that "it is the childen who choose their careet" |
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| 11th April 2011 07:17 PM | ||
| vijaypatel54 |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Not all parents force their dreams on their kids. Yeah some of them do. I think those who force their ambitions on their child is not good. They think that they know the best what their child can do but it is wrong. The child knows his potential and so if he/she is aware of the different career option then they can chose the best career option for themselves Parents think that only engg and medical are the best branches and all others are useless. Actually its not right to say that. These days lots of them are non engg and non doctors are more successful then engg and doctors.. So it depends on ones aptitude and interest. You can convince your parents somehow and i am sure parents cant go against their childs ambition if the child stresses more on it thanks |
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| 10th April 2011 10:14 PM | ||
| Unregistered |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? How can we students convince our parents to support our career decision ?give some arguments supporting that ecision. |
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| 3rd April 2011 07:46 PM | ||
| arvind_singh |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? well i do not think that it is valid for all parents as i have choosed my career my self. but in INDIA parents do choose what their child should do and i do not think that it is right because it is student who has to study not parents .so parents should left everything at their child .each students do good if they will work or study in their area of field or interest . But sometimes it aslo good that parents should control life of those students who just lost their path .so at that moment it is necessary that parents should come forward and choose a best career for their children. |
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| 3rd April 2011 05:25 PM | ||
| swati biswas |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Quote:
cheers swati |
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| 3rd April 2011 04:37 PM | ||
| gurpreetrodger |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? parents r influenced by the social environment for their children. Therefore they r in the position to select way to their children which is most favourable in the current environment. Children r suposed to select when they r able for that. |
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| 3rd April 2011 03:22 PM | ||
| JAMESS |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? this is not true for all time. the duty of parents is to guide their children not to force them. in some cases it seem that the children is going in wrong way without knowing proper information. then parents just try to make him/her understand that he/she is going in wrong way. it may come at the time of career choosing also. then if parents are sure that the way is wrong whatever their children choosing then they force their child. but it's true for a few percentage. now a days most of the parents give freedom to their children to choose their career. even if they think that their children is choosing not a good career option then also they don't force. they try to make their children with proper information but at last they give freedom to decide the last decision. it's a question of debate. some parents want that their children will go in the way that will be chosen by their parents and some parents think children should give freedom to choose their career option according to their interest. it's a question of thinking. |
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| 3rd April 2011 02:26 PM | ||
| priya ranjan bishoyi |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? 1st u think u belive ur parents or not.if not i a can't anything for u.if YES then follow the path he or her told u because they already see the world & what is good for u he/her thinking the best way to build ur career .because they want his children goes higher to higher alwayes. they support u in every moment of ur life in happy days or in bad days.so think for her blessing to u |
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| 3rd April 2011 10:23 AM | ||
| Niklesh92 |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? its not that your parents are not allowing to choose your career..they are just guiding you and if u are not interested in it you can speak with them and tell wat ur thinking and make them understand...aft all they are the only true souls who work for ur well-fare and also live for you.. |
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| 3rd April 2011 09:45 AM | ||
| rohitkumarramesh |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Quote:
I also choose my carrier with my own interest and my parents never forces me to chosse my carrier with their interest. I know there are still few parents who don't allow their children to make decision on their own. But thats not mean that they are your enmy.They do this because of your benift only. So if your parents forces you to chosse carrier what they say then tell them that you are not interested in this and you will not prform well in that area. |
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| 2nd April 2011 08:56 PM | ||
| devendergora |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? IT is becuase they think that children are not qualified enough to choose their career. By doing this , they are destroying the childrens ability of taking risk, sometime in time , they will have to take risk, which i think parent dont understand. |
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| 2nd April 2011 04:42 PM | ||
| Revathy GM |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Dear Friend You can say your interest to your parents. They will guide you in a right way. Dont ever think that your parents force. they will surely know which is best for their children. All the best for your future |
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| 2nd April 2011 01:03 PM | ||
| balathegreat |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Hi friend, not only you many teenagers thinks like this only. But you should understand one thing. they are our parents and they don't want to waste our life. they make us grow in a good way. you think a lot to ask questions like this who gave such brilliance to you surely your parents why can't they find a nice career for you. just listen to your parents it will be boring but it will take you in good path. if they goes against your interest talk to them and they will surely listen to your interest. don't think your parents as enemies who force you treat them as friends. |
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| 2nd April 2011 12:04 PM | ||
| cricket007 |
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If you are having trouble choosing a career, then please read this 4 page article that will give you our top 3 tips when it comes to how to choose a career. Please also take the time to come back as we will be adding new valuable resources and articles on how to choose a career. Choosing a career and sticking with it! For many of us, finding a career that we deem fun and long-term is in itself a long journey. But having a successful career in life is not just for the rich and famous, it's also for the average person, like you! We as humans are prone to look at successful individuals like Oprah or Bill Gates and assume that somehow they became wealthy and innovative overnight, but it truly took many years, time, effort, and perseverance. There are three important points to address when asking the question, what career is right for me? 3.Latest How to choose a career :: Changing Careers (New!) - No matter what you do for a living, job hunting can indeed be a daunting task. 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| 2nd April 2011 10:18 AM | ||
| lvnareshsunrise |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Here i am providing you what is being happening in reality. The parents who live in villages and who are not literates, they will think that their son/daughter should not be like them. So, they will take good care of their children aspects. They concerns with several known persons and knows the career which one is good for their children and they lets children to study the same. In most cases, these parents will give less importance to their children options. Even the children too, they are not in a position to decide which one is good for them and which one is not. So they will simply follow whatever their parents suggests. But in contrast, Most of the parents who are literates and who reside in cities, they will give the option to the children itself to choose their own career after come to the confirmation that children has matured mentally. As because of the interest, the students can perform well in the chosen area |
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| 25th March 2011 12:31 PM | ||
| Unregistered |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? what if a child chooses his profession on his parents guide and then the child remains jobless for 6 months like i am an electrical engineer i was forced by my parents to do this and do nothing else they told me if i would not do this then i would be wasted in life but after 4 years of college i now realize how wrong my parents were and they never came to know about the situation which i was in. |
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| 16th October 2010 12:30 AM | ||
| vik111 |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? DEar, that is a valid question n needs explanation.. i guess they want their wards to achieve what they couldnt.. this might look a bit selfish, but we are instrumental in their social pride.. family n friends.. well, we cant blame them. but if u r sure enough about a field that interests you, get atleast someone fom family in your confidence n proceed.. all the best |
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| 15th October 2010 11:54 PM | ||
| aotiwari |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? There are two aspects how you can get out of the loop, 1) Try convincing them by putting proper explanation. discuss with your friends how can you convince your parents. Its very easy if you give right explanation. 90% times this is the case that we don't put proper explanation 2) Parents are how many years older then you (approx 25 years) so they have very good amount of experience. right, so they will never think bad about you, its just that they are much cautious about everything Try convincing once again. Thirdly you have no other options. |
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| 15th October 2010 11:52 PM | ||
| JAMESS |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? actually that is not true. students are also allowed to choose their career, but students are not completely mature. so it is not possible to take proper decision for the student. so parents are their to help them. parents are always want to see their child in a good position of life. they are more experienced in the world than their child. so parents are just want to help the student. not that they not allowed to the student to decide the career option. |
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| 15th October 2010 11:40 PM | ||
| teeks |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? DEAR because parents are more experienced then you he knows what is wrong and what is right for there childrans ok they alway do correct with there childrans ok |
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| 15th October 2010 08:03 PM | ||
| mseetharamster |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Parents do not force to do what they want but they force to do what makes your career better. In India doing any career doesn't provide you a good career. Because to grow in any field the requirements good coaching, exposure, opportunities, respect in society is not the same.So doing only few courses benefit you and parents say to do that. For example many interest to do Animation, but institutes that provide good quality are very less. The jobs you get doesn't give security and good salary also. |
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| 24th July 2010 08:04 PM | ||
| NISAMTI |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? both parents and children are humans..they have their own desires.okay..there is no right to stress a child by the parents..and the child must also think why parents are so anxious about their future..it's their responsibility..it is the responsibility of the child or institutes to convey a message not only medical and engineering,MBA,MCA are professional courses..there are several other options to brighten your child's future..good luck friend
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| 23rd July 2010 08:34 PM | ||
| Unregistered |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? children should be given freedom to choose their career |
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| 19th July 2010 01:59 PM | ||
| Unregistered |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? I dnt sat dat parents are our enemies!! |
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| 18th July 2010 08:54 PM | ||
| monathakkar77 |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Quote:
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| 18th July 2010 07:27 PM | ||
| trupti_9227 |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? good evening! i personally feel that parent should first listen to your wish & then act. but still if they dont fulfill our wishes like carrer choosing there might be any serious reason behind it.after all they are not our enemies. what ever they think for us, or decide is thought in favour of your better & bright future.so, i would just suggest you , if you don't like their decision , try to talk to them & figure out the reason behind it. |
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| 18th July 2010 06:34 PM | ||
| syed umair ali |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? children are not allowed to choose their own career as they might not be mature enough to take a good decision for them . career decision is not a joke. it requires a good and mature thinking. it is said that parents are more experienced and knows what is good and what is bad for their child . so i think if parents are forcing their children to go in a particular direction they are doing right.. |
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| 18th July 2010 06:06 PM | ||
| odc |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? first of all you should remember that the parents are not forcing you to choose your career but they are forcing you to give you a nice future.They are forcing you to study well which is not wrong because today's world is very much competitive and if you lag behind you can face failure which is major concern of all parents. that is why they force you to do studies and they are forcing you towards a particular field say engineering,etc. because this field has great future and opportunities so that you will be happy in your future. if you want your parents to let you choose your career then you convince that your interest in a particular field is useful and you can do well in your field of interest and you can tell them about the opportunities which this field can bring it to you in future. best of luck |
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| 18th July 2010 06:01 PM | ||
| nikhil bharti |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? hi friend, I am also agree with my friend kalyan333's answer our parents always think about career because they are observe you since you are born and they know what is suitable to you. But i am also a student and i know that mostly student choose there career where their friends are go. but when you are going to select your career you also considered about you parents |
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| 18th July 2010 03:03 PM | ||
| poojao8 |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Quote:
but if u have faith in yourself and are cent percent sure that you can cross all the hurdles than you ned to talk calmly on this with your parents. Make them realize that you are not a child and just little support of your parents will take you to the top stair of success no matter how much difficult is the journey. hope it helps you dear... and wish you all the best.... |
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| 18th July 2010 02:43 PM | ||
| N.MD.AZHARUDDIN |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? i guess u have understood what is life and parents... so please never hurt your parents by going against them talk to them say your need they will understand...... |
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| 18th July 2010 02:07 PM | ||
| rahul k |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Dear friend Why parents force children? Parents not force children, but in my opinoin they should help and guide the child in making better decision. So, according to me children must have full freedom of choosing his own carrier but the involvement of parents is very important. Yes, it is true that, many parents will force their children. But they will don't know that, in future his child can not get a sucess. So, its better if Children should decide their own path But after deciding, you should always consult your parents for a approval. So, i think some pressure is too important for chirdren for his and her bright future. But too much pressure is not so good for his and her child............ |
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| 18th July 2010 01:18 PM | ||
| N.MD.AZHARUDDIN |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? hii dear i guess you must have understood what i said u is my guiding is good try to ask your parents about your field i can say for sure that they will accept... |
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| 18th July 2010 02:17 AM | ||
| shreyaskansal |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Quote:
Hello Sushree, See Sushree, parents have given birth to us....they have many dreams that they want us to fulfill them.....also they are not forcing you to study that they want but they want us to chose the right path that would lead us to a better future....We all know that our parents are very much experienced than us, so if they ask us to do something, there must be something good for us as no parent would like to see their child in agony or unpleasant circumstances.. So, you must cooperate with them and also you can put forward your view in front of them which would help you to understand each other quite better. Hope you will understand their feelings.....Best of Luck |
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| 18th July 2010 12:35 AM | ||
| mini rani |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Quote:
However,in the 21st century the parents mindset is also changing. They now realize that the best career for their ward is one in which they are interested & have the potential to excel. So, they don't force their children rather guide them in their career path. |
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| 17th July 2010 10:47 PM | ||
| NISAMTI |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? Hi Gayatri.how are you..i think you are you are fine..and parents also once a student..and there are parents who are anxious about their child's future and there also persons who want make their child suceed in the field they failed to achieve..so,those are curious and anxious.Now-a-days,most of the parents are prefering the child's interest.they only desire is to see at the top i.e;at the peak..that's it..so,there is nothing in that desire..but now we are choosing the course to our interest..but,are we sincere in fullfilling your own targets..so..wrong is not with both the parents and the children..because,of family reasons,they (parents in their student life did n't reach their goal mostly economically).koool.."PARENTS ALWAYS DESIRE THEIR CHILD TO BE AT PEAK POSITION IN WHAT EVER FIELD HE/SHE CHOSE..BUT,ONE THING THE FIELD YOU HAVE CHOSEN MUST BE THE INCORRUPTIVE,SINCERE,HELPFUL TO THE SOCIETY..AND PARENTS MUST RECOGNISE THEIR CHILD'S INTEREST AND KEEP THEM ENCOURGING..BECAUSE..IF ALL WOULD HAVE STUDIED ENGINEERING,MEDICINE OR ANY OTHER COURSE...POWERFUL INFLUENTIAL PERSONS LIKE MOTHERTERESA,SACHINTENDULKAR,DIANA(OF U.S. BUT ALL ARE HUMANS)..... |
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| 17th July 2010 10:36 PM | ||
| Sumit-deep |
Re: Why students are not allowed to choose their own career? Why parents force children? It is indeed very true that no student must be forced into choosing a career they are not passionate about. But many parents do enforce upon their children what they deem more fit,not taking into consideration the interest of their child. However none can disagree the fact that parents have seen more days than their children. And what is more is that,their actions towards their child is guided by their utmost interest in their child's benefit. Therefore they do have a right to guide their children and try to make them understand what is best suited for them, though not "enforcing" their decisions on them. Thus it can be very well concluded that choosing a career should be a mutual decision of both the child and his/her guardian/parent. |
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