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4th August 2020 03:39 PM
deepikapandey9999
Re: How to develop Communication skills?

I'm assuming by communication skills you mean a more formal way of communication in one or more recognised language. I'll be taking up English as an example. ( You can apply the same structure for any language and hopefully, it should work. )

English

Case 1 : English is not your first language

Now if English is not your first language, you can start by collecting your thoughts and forming a structure before you speak. To be honest, it will take some time. Start by having a one on one conversation with yourself. Preferably, while looking in the mirror.

Example : let's pick up a topic - Is Virat Kohli the next big thing in Cricket?

Now, before you get swayed away by emotions, take 5–10 seconds to think and form a structure. Then, try to present the same while looking at yourself in the mirror. This will reveal seven traits :

A. Confidence

You yourself will be in a position to gauge your confidence level whilst looking in the mirror. This again, will improve with time and practice. Again, if you have substantial awareness/knowledge regarding a topic you are likely to be confident. Keep practicing and this shall help you accentuate your confidence.

B. Fluency

The next ingredient that you have to keep in check is your fluency. Please, take a note it is absolutely fine to stutter initially. This will improve with time and practice. What is more important is to keep a check on how you put forth a conversation i.e

Do you tend to get over excited on a familiar topic of yours and tend to speak fast? Or are you mumb when it comes to a more abstract topic!

Remember, think in your native language - then collect your thoughts , structure them and then shoot in a more humble manner. Don't rush.

C. Speed and Pauses

The third factor that comes into picture is your speed and the pauses you take. This is different from fluency, but in a way compliments the same. Take pauses while you speak (1–2 seconds), this compliments your fluency , keeps in check your speed and gives you time to think.

D. Pitch

While we are at it, it is essential to keep a tab on your voice pitch. Neither too high, nor too low. Try to fine tune it to the level of pleasantness. No one likes a cacophony and neither is mumbling appreciated.

E. Knowledge

Any conversation for that matter has to make sense. And for a good communication it is imperative that you sound sensible. Obviously you can speak shit and sound cool. But to reach that level, you need to master the nuances of communication. Also, since the question is about improving communication skills, we shall stick to sensible conversation. Therefore widen your horizon of knowledge. You can do this by reading newspaper, watching movies, watching debates, reading on Quora , reading articles/blogs on social media etc whichever fits.

F. Body Language/Gestures

Last but not the least , always be vigilant about your body language - hand movements, facial expressions in particular. Reason - actions speak louder than words. They either give positive and pleasant vibes or make you sound like a douche.

G. Vocabulary/Choosing the right word

Prolly the last thing to worry about. Once you are at some level with the above parameters, make sure you improve your vocab. Essentially, by vocab I mean choosing a more appropriate word which correlates to the emotion or meaning. Eg :

The sentence - “Ranbir is sharp eyed when it comes to dressing sense.” can be rephrased as “Ranbir dresses up with fastidious care.”

Offbeat Tactic ( An important one ) - Try this at the end of day when you are done with the above mentioned activity.

Visualize yourself and an eloquent speaker engaging in a conversation. ( Mr. Shashi Tharoor, Our Hon'ble PM - Shri Narendra Modi, Mr. Barak Obama, a friend of yours maybe etc ) - this can be performed in your leisure time.

This will mentally challenge you to think and answer while maintaining your composure, which eventually will be reflected in your day to day life.

Case 2 : English is your first language

Since English ( or whatever language you intend to converse in ) is your first language , you already “ THINK” in that language. This makes things relatively easier for you.

Since the most important part is half done ( structuring of thoughts) you will be able to converse rather smoothly and effectively as compared to the folks who belong to Case 1. What I mean to say is you will be able to improve on the above mentioned parameters relatively faster. But you have to improve, as there is always a room to be a better version of oneself.
27th July 2012 07:32 PM
TanaB
Re: How to develop Communication skills?

One of the first things you need to do to improve your communication skills is actually to become a better listener.

You need to be an active listener and pay attention to what your audience is saying, either by their words, body language or action. This way, you increase your odds of offering a better response.

Learn more ways to improve your communication skills here: http://EffectiveCommunicationAdvice.com
27th July 2012 07:29 PM
Unregistered
Re: How to develop Communication skills?

One of the first things you need to do to improve your communication skills is actually to become a better listener.

You need to be an active listener and pay attention to what your audience is saying, either by their words, body language or action. This way, you increase your odds of offering a better response.

Learn more ways to improve your communication skills here: http://EffectiveCommunicationAdvice.com
30th March 2012 12:36 AM
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Re: How to develop Communication skills?

Can I sit for NET exams?I Have 48.3% in graduation but 55% inM.A. in English.
25th March 2012 12:34 AM
ranjith1438
Re: How to develop Communication skills?

Hai..
For developing your communication skills you need to follow the following rules:

Don't watch the regional channels watch english channels to improve your listening skills.

Read english news papers daily and also read the english magazines.

Try to speak english always in your home and your surroundings.
24th March 2012 09:09 PM
dhirajen18
Re: How to develop Communication skills?

Hi friend.

You have put a valuable question which is the basic requirement for all.



You must have to work hard for developing your skills.

Here i want to give you some tips for improving your communication skills.

- At first you have to make yourself fluent in English. You need to practice English with others by face to face conversation to increase your speaking power.

- You need to be stronger in English words. Try to Practice at-least 10 words a day to increase your word power.

- Try to listen English news and read newspapers everyday to improve yourself in English.

- You should follow some books for communication skills that are available from various authors in the market.

- More you will speak, your performance will increase.

- You should also Purchase a book related to organizational behavior. This will teach you how to communicate in business organizations.

So i hope that if you will go through all above points you will get more benefit.

All the very best.
24th March 2012 07:53 PM
Unregistered
Re: How to develop Communication skills?

read a lot of magazines and watch english movies, english news channels.
24th March 2012 05:06 PM
Unregistered
Re: How to develop Communication skills?

I am doing MCA course. How should I prepare for civil service by myself from now ?
24th March 2012 03:22 PM
mendu aparna
Re: How to develop Communication skills?

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Originally Posted by ARAVINDAN. S View Post
How 2 develop communication skills quickly
here i am attaching some of the files used to develop communication skills.


Develop your communication (both speaking and writing) skills with correct spelling, good pronunciation, clear voice and grammatical accuracy. Command on language / languages increases quality of communication skills many fold

A good gesture and appropriate body language help developing communication skills.

Many people confuse communication skill with speaking ability. It is not limited to that only. Communication skills include writing skill, gestures and body language. One has to learn these to develop communication skills.

Knowledge of using modern communication devices such as phones, mobile phones, computers and internet is also integral part of communication skills.
24th March 2012 01:26 PM
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Re: How to develop Communication skills?

How to prepare for junior engineer exam in rrb
24th March 2012 11:36 AM
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Re: How to develop Communication skills?

I want to become fluent in english as soon as possible.My english is good but I want fluency like Americans so what can I do for it.Plz tell me and send your answer on my e-mail address [email protected] be very thankful to you.Plz send my answer as soon as possible.I will be waiting for your answer.
Akanksha Aggarwal
24th March 2012 10:54 AM
priyo06
Re: How to develop Communication skills?

dear friend,

As English is one of the National Language so it is very important to a person to learn and speak English very well.

TIPS TO IMPROVE ENGLISH ::

There are some important points which I have mentioned will help you a lot i think. These points are given below :

1. Maintain a time table i.e. from this time to this time I'll learn English.,
2. Work hard,
3. Take a valuable guideline from books and as well as coaching centers if
you want to take,
4. Practice carefully
5. Read Newspaper daily,
6. Speak with your friend and family members in English.
7. Read English story books.

This is the way to improve English.That's all I can suggest to you.One thing I can say you that if you would go under this above guidelines then I am sure you will improve your English.



~regards~
priyo
24th March 2012 08:47 AM
ARAVINDAN. S
How to develop Communication skills?

How 2 develop communication skills quickly

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